@ShadowJonathan Autistic people don't want to *follow* rules, we just want to know they exist so we can analyze whether they are good or not. We don't want to take for granted that we're being told the truth, because we know nobody ever tells us the truth to our face. Oppression of autistic people is based in the 'rule' that we are an aberration that shouldn't exist, so why would we follow that rule? So too we eye the gender binary warily and with reasonable doubt.