men guys and boys are not a monolith any more than anyone else of any other gender/identity/label is. for every toxic misogynistic asshole i've encountered i've been equally blessed interacting with incredibly kind empathetic and just all around cool guys over the years. if anyone gave them any grief for just being guys i would go to bat for them in a heartbeat because they do not deserve that kind of crap for being what they are. if you wouldn't want people to do that to you, then you absofuckinlutely shouldn't do that to them. trans cis or otherwise.

frankly speaking, if you think men suck, get better men in your life.