me in 2015: "maybe i should just pick a label and identity and stick to it even though none of them adequately define me. making my own new one feels too 'im the main character attention seeking-y' and i should probably blend in to feel safer."

me in 2025: "you know what, fuck it, fuck everything. im tired of appeasing peoples backwards thinking. fuck binarys. fuck labels. fuck categorization. fuck assimilationist rhetoric. no more being shoved in a box. life is too short to not be all of me. every gender is personalized. my gender is myself. my sexuality is everyone else. im queer as fuck and thats the only thing that matters. leave me the fuck alone."