Please don't compare yourself to others and find yourself lacking. Please don't gatekeep yourself, or tolerate the gatekeeping of others.

You are beautiful and unique, and you are now and always will be on a deeply personal voyage of discovery. Only you can determine that journey's destination.

We all doubt our journeys. We start to wonder if maybe we set off in the wrong direction. But discovery and adventure doesn't have an ideal or optimal path. Your course is correct, and when it becomes incorrect you will alter it.